Real relaxation
Tantric massage is a beautiful ritual during which you are included by the touch, care and conscious attention of the massage therapist. The gradual progress of the massage, the respectful approach and sensitivity of experienced masseuses will help to dissolve all initial fears and nervousness. Clients feel relaxed and energized after the massage. They often experience a thoughtless meditative state, despite the fact that they cannot meditate alone at home. Some even find themselves in a blissful state of expanded consciousness for a moment, during which they feel a release from the material body and perceive their transcendence and connection with the surrounding world.
How does the massage work?
Relaxation of body and mind is the basis for a perfect experience. For this, the first part of the massage is based on pleasant touches, body compression of key reflex points, hot and hot towels or gentle stroking of feathers and fine fur. In this part you really turn off your head and just enjoy what is happening to you. You are aware of various touches and their effects on different parts of your body.
Working with energy
Compared to a regular classic massage, everything happens more slowly, so that you have enough time to properly demand each phase of the massage and each movement of the masseuse’s hand. At the same time, it has a pleasant tone, so you won’t get bored and have no chance to fall asleep. The masseuse pays attention to details. It doesn’t miss any important and sensitive spot and understands the energy pathways and directions in the body, so it can calm you down or energize you as needed.
Body to body
An important aspect of tantric massage is the closeness of the masseur, not only physically, but especially mentally. You become aware of this closeness for the first time during the initiation ritual. You are both still standing next to him, dressed in sarongs. The entire tantric massage begins with an introductory ritual. You get used to the fact that you let a stranger into your personal space, you tune in to each other with a common breath and you start to perceive each other. The whole massage takes place in an intimate mental connection. You feel that the masseuse is there just for you and you are the center of the world throughout the massage.
How about nudity?
Tantric massage is holistic, so the whole body is massaged and each part receives appropriate care. Tantra knows no taboos and accepts the human body as a whole, including intimate parts. Tantric massage also includes nudity. However, if the client does not feel comfortable, he or she can keep the underwear. During the ritual, the masseuse usually ties a sarong around her waist or keeps the lower part of her underwear on. Someone feels good in natural nudity while being massaged.
The longer the better
The ideal length of a massage is two hours or more. If the body relaxes enough and the masseuse gains the trust of the client, space opens up for deep tantric experiences. Deep breathing and massage strokes supporting the correct energy flow cause energy to flow in the body of the person being massaged and bring them closer to the so-called energy orgasm and a state of expanded consciousness.
Kundalini and dance of bodies
Sexual energy and excitement is distributed throughout the body, so the experience is complex and does not take place only in the pelvic area, as we are used to from ordinary sexual life. The goal of any massage of intimate parts is not orgasm, but sexual awakening of the body. Some clients feel slight tremors on the fingertips, lips, and in the case of complete relaxation, throughout the body. If the massager and the massaged are of the opposite sex, the blending of different energies – male and female – will make a great impression. The massage has a charge and is very harmonious. Both participants are in a subtle interaction and the whole ritual seems like an intimate dance of two bodies. A lot of emotions come to the surface, the point of tantra is to let these emotions manifest and experience everything that has awakened and opened.
Setting boundaries
However, the boundaries during the massage are fixed, they are set before the beginning during the initial conversation over tea. The client determines the limits within which the masseur will move and tells himself if he does not want to be massaged in certain places. The masseuse also sets boundaries in the same way. The set limits no longer change during the massage.
Try a tantric massage and see for yourself. Take time for yourself and let yourself be taken care of. You deserve it. You may also discover a new dimension of sexuality and a way of experiencing it.