What is good to know
In general, there is no need to prepare for a massage. Nevertheless, it is good to have a few recommendations from memory that will make the experience even more pleasant.
First of all, it is advisable to get in the mood for a tantric massage. Get a good night’s sleep on the day of your scheduled massage and try to start functioning in a calmer mode in the morning. Avoid uncomfortable situations, arguments and tense discussions. Do not try to solve complex tasks and make important decisions on this day, keep an overview of everyday “operational” problems and random stressful moments. Just try to enjoy the day of the massage from the very beginning. Make yourself a good coffee, extend your breakfast, go for a quality lunch.
How much time to have?
Be sure to save enough time not only for the massage itself, but also for the time after the massage. Expect to spend 30-45 minutes longer in the salon than the actual length of the massage you are booked for. The massage is preceded by a conversation, after the massage you will have space to share your feelings and you will need to let your experience absorb and fade away. In short, even returning to reality will take some time. It is therefore important that you are not under time pressure and that you do not have to rush anywhere even after the massage is over.
Turn off the phone
In any case, before the tantric massage, delegate all your responsibilities that require your immediate response. Arrange for babysitting. If they are used to you being available to them all the time, let those around you know that you will not be available for the next few hours. Set an automatic response: “I’ll get back to you in four hours.” You’ll be completely offline during the massage. For smart devices, in addition to turning it off completely, the “airplane” mode works well for us. Muting is not enough. There is nothing more distracting than when a quiet cell phone vibrates or flashes to illuminate a darkened room during a massage. Not to mention the loud ringing. At that moment, your brain leaves the state of total relaxation it has been building up until now and revs up its thought-spewing machine again. Questions begin to flood your head: “Who is calling like that?”, “What could he want?”, “What is so urgent that he is calling right now?” or “What the hell happened?”
Chatting over tea
If you have any health restrictions, pains or perhaps an allergy to animal fur or oil, which is often pressed from nuts and all kinds of seeds, do not forget to tell the masseuse during the initial conversation. He will find a suitable alternative for you. Also try to think about what intention you are coming to the massage with. Whether you are just curious and looking forward to a new experience, you want to turn off your head and rest in deep relaxation, or you need to be touched and emotionally satisfied. There can be many motivations for undergoing a tantric massage. However, clearly defining the intention is really important when you decide to look within and plan to awaken themes and blocks stored in the unconscious. That is, if you consider tantric massage as one of the steps in your own self-development.
Will you go for it?
In conclusion, visiting a tantric salon is nothing to be afraid of or nervous about. The massage is very pleasant and is done with great respect and regard for your needs and current settings. Everything flows calmly and naturally. As our clients agree upon leaving, everyone should experience a tantric massage. What about you, have you tried tantric massage?